The Real Reason Why They Keep Leaving You On Read

September 6, 2020

Before you dive into the secrets, yes secrets I am about to share I want to point out the difference between “on read” and “unread”. “On read” means they saw the message, read it and told themselves nah, this is not worth the data it will cost me to reply. Now if you have found that your messages are almost always left in this state, read the reason/s why here;

1. U typ lyk dis. 

And no one has the mental energy to start decoding your messages.

 2. They know what you want to say and they are tired of responding to it.

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It is always “How far?” “WYD?” “How was your night?” “Same” “What’s up?”. When you are not writing their biography o.

3. They don’t know who you are and you refused to introduce yourself.

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You are busy asking them “so you deleted my number”.

4. They know exactly who you are and they already blocked the first 3 numbers you tried to reach them with. 

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And fam, at this point we advice that you rest.

5. They have told you they don’t like you but you have coconut head.

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Somebody somewhere is telling you to apply pressure. You need to stop listening to that person fam.

Read this too: 8 Clear Signs And Symptoms Of A Nigerian Situationship.

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