Could you cry for love like Saga or are you a hard guy like Angel? Take the quiz:
The subject of today’s What She Said is a 19-year-old who blames her dad’s ill-treatment for her attraction to older men. She talks about finding out he was cheating, growing up very poor, and her dad’s financial abuse.
Getting over people isn’t the easiest thing, so it’s no surprise that not everyone knows how to get over someone. We’ve all had a period where we’ve had to do it. Sometimes it’s someone we were never even in a relationship with. Being the absolute sweethearts that we are, we’re going to tell you how […]
There are some vital truths you only get to understand when you experience them firsthand. This is no different in love and relationships. After all, matters of the heart can sometimes be where we learn about ourselves the most – what works for us, and those things we say “never again” to. Here are couple […]
Dating your coworker can be tricky because if it ends in tears, you might end up jobless. Here’s a guide to making sure that doesn’t happen to you. 1.Check if they wear a ring often It is one thing to date a coworker and another thing to date someone else’s partner. If their relationship is […]
If you date Nigerian men, here are some of the kinds you might enter into a relationship with or have already been in a relationship with. 1) Oedipus complex This kind of man only dates women who look like, talk like and act like his mother. Whenever you hang out, he brings his mother into […]
We can guess how many relationships you’ve been in based on the romantic movies you’ve watched. Go ahead:
The subject of this week’s What She Said is a 24-year-old woman who is a middle child. She talks about seeking attention growing up, and her strained relationship with her father. What’s your earliest memory of your childhood? I crashed my older sister’s birthday. I was in Primary One, and it was December. I told […]
Have you ever wondered what a relationship with a musician is like? Well, these seven Nigerians share what it is like dating musicians. Anna We met in SS3 and someone told me he liked me. The girls I hung out with told me he was a musician and a cringy one at that, but I […]
So your man is cheating, but you want to remain with him and don’t know how to do it? Never fear, here is the Zikoko guide to staying with a cheating man. 1) Take it to God in prayer Ask God to give you the grace to continue in the marriage. There is nothing God […]
Here is a list of signs to watch out for in your relationship so it doesn’t end in tears.
When your friend is dating someone you don’t like, here are six things that you should definitely do. 1) Keep your mouth shut They will never listen to anything you have to say. People in love usually are unable to process information concerning their relationship because they have lost all their five senses. If you […]
We don’t hear enough stories about men being heartbroken or dumped even though we all know it happens. Today, we spoke to four Nigerian men on the worst ways they’ve been dumped. Tokunbo, 24. I had this lady, we had been dating for about a year or so. I was still in uni then and […]
There are a lot of reasons someone might feel they settled for less than you deserved in a relationship. So, these five Nigerian women talk about the times they settled in their relationship. Joy, 21 In the first two months of the relationship, I was smitten! We shared similar interests in things, and he used […]
The honeymoon phase is sweet, and makes you think your relationship will last “forever”. Well, take this quiz to find out if this relationship of yours is really built on solid ground or sinking sand. QUIZ: 11 Quizzes That Will Help You Figure Out Your Love Life
In this quiz, we’ll ask you seven simple questions, and at the end we’ll be able to accurately tell your relationship status. Think we’re lying? Try it here:
The subject of this week’s What She Said is a 50-year-old woman who dated her ex-husband for 12 years and was married to him for 14 years. She talks about leaving him after years of being manipulated, the joy that comes from being a single woman again and life as a divorced Christian woman.
What happens when you finally realise that the person you are “talking to” will probably not reply your message ever again? Well, if you are ever ghosted while in a talking stage, then you can try any of these six things. 1) Become a ghost Since they have decided to ghost you, the best thing […]
As Told To Itohan For a while now, I had been asking people what the most interesting parts about their love life. So, when someone reached out to me and said she fell in love with her Uncle, I wondered if I was reading right. The person in today’s As Told To is *Anna, a […]
What is life like as a woman with sisters? These nine Nigerian women talk about their relationship with their sisters. Mary, 56 My sister and I are both old women, but she still treats me like we are little children. Whenever she calls and my voice does not sound the way she wants it to, […]
We can guess your relationship status based on the Nigerian love songs you like. Don’t believe us? Take the quiz
As Told To Itohan After the HER newsletter went out on Saturday, I got an email back from a woman who wanted to talk to me. She said she lost someone precious to her, and it was all her fault. So, I got her number and we had this conversation on WhatsApp. Names are changed […]
What does it mean to be a man? Surely, it’s not one thing. It’s a series of little moments that add up. “Man Like” is a weekly Zikoko series documenting these moments to see how it adds up. It’s a series for men by men, talking about men’s issues. We try to understand what it means […]
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